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Ionic Bond: Taken, Not Shared
Elements are electrically neutral because they have the same number of electrons and protons.
Well, if an atom gives an electron away, suddenly it has more protons than electrons. This gives the atom a positive charge. Similarly, if an atom accepts an electron from another atom, then it has more electrons than protons. This gives it a negative charge.
If you remember, charged atoms are called ions. Conveniently enough, bonds between ions are called ionic bonds.

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These bonds are formed when an electron of one atom is either donated or taken by another atom. When an atom donates an electron, it gains a positive charge. The atom accepting the electron gains a negative charge. Much like magnets, the opposite charges attract and an ionic bond is formed. An electrostatic attraction holds the atoms together.
What happens to the atoms that form an ionic bond?
These bonds are weaker than covalent bonds, and compounds made from them easily dissociate (fall apart) in water. They are formed between metals and electronegative nonmetals. On the periodic table, the metals often are from Group 1 or 2, while the nonmetals are often from Group 16 or 17. For a deeper look at electronegativity, check out the beginning of this explanation on polar and nonpolar bonds.
Nonmetals, shown above, are the electronegative electron acceptors. They need one or more electrons to have a full outer electron shell. Believe me, they really want a full outer shell with eight electrons. Because of this, they will take the electrons from another atom to complete their valence shell.
The metals are electron donors. They have an extra electron in their valence shell that they don't really want anymore, so they just give it away. The full shell beneath becomes the valence shell and the metal is happy.
Moving on, look at the picture below of table salt, . The sodium atom has an electron that it doesn't really want, while the chlorine atom needs one more electron to be happy.

Sodium chloride, also known as table salt, is an ionic compound.
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The sodium atom gives its extra electron to the chlorine, which makes them both ions. The protons outnumber the electrons in sodium, so it becomes a positively charged ion. The electrons outnumber the protons in chlorine, so it becomes a negatively charged ion.
Remember how negative and positive charges attract? The newly formed ions are strongly attracted to each other. They form an ionic compound. These structures are sometimes called a crystalline lattice. This is why a grain of table salt is a small crystal.

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How are ionic compounds formed?
: Partial positive and negative charges caused by some atoms wanting electrons more than other atoms in a molecule
: A bond formed when two atoms share an electron pair
: A bond formed when one atom gives up one or more electrons from a different atom
: Positively charged hydrogens of one molecule are attracted to the negative charge on another molecule
: A way to measure the tendency of an atom to attract pairs of electrons
: A relatively weak intermolecular force that holds molecules together








